it shouldn't matter
and normally it doesn't. not at all.
but every once in a while, something happens, like i get a Christmas card in the mail & i realize that even most of my younger cousins are at least engaged, if not already married & starting families.
and i realize that i'm not.
i start to hate all the "so... when is it your turn?" lines of questioning. and i start to feel like i've somehow failed.
it shouldn't matter. and normally it doesn't. but every once in a while, something happens and... suddenly it *does*.
4 with their own thoughts:
give me names and i will kick some butts! it does not matter. what matters is that you are doing what you want/need to be doing and that you are happy. screw everyone else especially those that have the lines of questioning! and well i hope i have never been one of those (which i do not think i have been) b/c it would be hard to kick my own butt :)
*hugs*
MEN SUCK ANYWAY!!!!!!
:)
Well... it could have been your turn. But it would have been all wrong. And you would have been totally miserable. In your case, you may have failed if you continued on certain paths. But you didn't. You took the harder road... the scarier one. So that when you *do* have your own family, it will be all the more happier and more sound.
Listen...it doesn't matter...BECAUSE...we are all different...we have different lives and you are you and that is all that matters!
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